How to become excellent in love, and never stay the friend again?
When you meet a woman, it's quite an obstacle course that awaits you. If only to get a moment alone with her… and even like that, you are going to ask yourself a lot of questions. “How can I be clear in my intentions, without rushing it and appearing to be a heavyweight?” ... but above all “how do I manage this meeting well, in order to have a romantic relationship afterward?” ...
The fundamental basis to have in order not to fall into the traps
When you have a date with a lovely lady, at one of our gorgeous escort meets, you're bound to want more than just friendship. But during this phase to which you are attracted, you develop a relationship with the person. This relationship is always friendly at first, that is to say, that the attraction is perhaps not reciprocal ... or at least not yet.
But at first, you may feel confused, alone, and anxious.
You want more, but you don't know how to get it.
We've all been there.
The thing to avoid is obsessing over and spending all your free time thinking about that person. Why?
Nothing is more attractive than a man with plans
Here is. This is the secret. The big key to becoming attractive. Have a life plan, and stick to it for some relationship. So obviously I'm not telling you not to talk to the girl you want. But do not pass for a person in constant demand, affection, attention. Not only will it drastically lower your chances of seducing a woman, in addition, but it will also make you forget your leitmotif, your ambitions.
Obviously, it has happened to us all to forget ourselves for a woman. To have each of our thoughts turned to her... But that's the biggest trap to avoid. Again, you might not see where I'm going with this ... Yet it's pretty straightforward actually.
If you give only the time you have for a woman, instead of taking time (dedicated to your passions, or your activities), you will come across as someone who has a fulfilling and fulfilling life. This is very attractive because it shows that you have character, that you have a real life, projects, and discipline.
Basically, if a woman wants to be with you, it's because she wants to enjoy YOUR life. She wants to know what you are doing, without necessarily being interested in it, but this daily life that you have, even if it is "banal", can be extremely attractive to her: it can give her a framework, ambitions, or simply make him want to walk by your side. And for that: do not forget yourself for a woman.
Spot the friendzone
You know, sentences like “I would like to meet someone like you, you are a wonderful friend” ... “ok, we meet on such and such a day, we invite the others too, are you okay?”. .. “Of course you are a great person, otherwise, I wouldn't be friends with you!” ...
The little tender gestures, like when she hugs you and looks at you as she would with her pet, and the little phrases that compare you to her brother… These are painful reminders, every day passes. If you recognize yourself in these situations, then no doubt: you are in the friendzone. What is the friendzone?
It's actually the fictional place, sort of a landmark when you have feelings for the girl, but she definitely only sees you as a friend.
She talks to you about her problems with other men and asks you for advice - you, who covets her more than anyone. Sometimes you try to flirt with her, but either she doesn't seem to be receptive or just the idea of being in a relationship with you is totally irrelevant to her.
You are friends, but that is not enough for you. What you want is more - it's way beyond.
Leaving the friendzone, a myth?
So, in fact, the friendzone is a form of rejection in itself, and there are several reasons for that. Already, a woman can put you in a friendzone because she doesn't want to risk hurting you (and losing your friendship), she can be afraid of rejecting someone. If you're part of the same group of friends, she won't want to make the situation awkward. She wants to have you in her life, but not as a romantic partner… just as a friend.
Now, it can manifest in different forms. Monitor your relationship well, try to analyze with hindsight, and if you observe some of the following behaviors ... Then it is possible that you are in the friendzone:
- It's up to you to keep the conversations going, get them started, and get them going again.
- Very explicit conversations about her exes, and other people in her life.
- Hints to his types of men ... and you clearly don't fit his criteria.
- Regular references to other people and the desire that creates in her.
- Continue to think of yourself as a closest friend
Now, this rejection is not necessarily irreversible ... you guessed it, we tell you everything afterward.
How to get out of the friendzone?
First, ask yourself if she would be interested. As said before, does your life attract him? Do you have any ambitions, any aspirations that might make him want to take an interest in you? Do you have a really close relationship with her?
Then try to redefine your category in its head. This is the most difficult, but also what will earn you the most points. In fact, you need to change the way she sees you, in a natural way. To be successful, you must change your ways: eliminate anything that suggests friendship. Don't be so close anymore: create space. Become someone she can't think of as a friend. Take a cue from the people she told you you want. Maybe she likes silent men: in this case, talk less, act more. But above all: staying natural is the key to breaking down the wall of the friendzone.