The language, whether for women or men, is a tool of pleasure, which can make more than one (and more than one) fantasize. On the one hand, the language is essential and is necessarily involved if we talk about sexual relations, with oral sex.
You can make a woman come with your tongue, you can also make her warm up by having fun licking her neck or chest. And the language of a woman will inevitably make you think of fellatio, the holy grail of oral sex!
Similarly, simply during a classic kiss exchange, your tongue which will subtly touch the lips or the tongue of your partner: is essential.
What is a tongue fetish?
Tongue fetishism is when someone has certain sexual arousal given to them by the sight or sensation of tongues. It's important to dissociate someone who simply loves French kisses from someone who has a real fetish for languages.
For a language fetishist, languages are not a tool of pleasure, but they are the object of his desire. For example, for almost any fetish, we realize that it is often since adolescence or even childhood that we are attracted (without really knowing why) by a part of the body or something else...
There is often a misunderstanding between those who love languages because they can provide pleasurable and sexually arousing sensations and those who are obsessed with languages. And that's also why the language fetish is a fetish still unknown to the battalion in France.
I also specify that this very little-known fetish requires, like all the other fetishes, to test your fantasies in real life, which is why I advise you to go and try all your fetishes with our Lyon escorts, to be certain of your penchant, and to be able to express your wishes.
For example, someone who takes pleasure during sex because his girlfriend licks his neck is different from another person who will be aroused simply if his/her partner sticks out his tongue.
Appreciation of oral sex is not a way to claim that you are a language fetishist. On the other hand, if you adore oral sex precisely because it involves the tongue, then you may be one of the (many) language fetishists.
Is language fetishism common?
Even though the tongue is a sex organ in many people's heads, the tongue fetish is still quite rare. Enjoying languages is common, but as we have said, it is very often for the pleasure that results from them, and not for the language as such.
Some in-depth survey studies have found that approximately 2% of self-identified fetishists have a singular fondness for the mouth, with either teeth, lips, or tongue elicited arousal.
Thus, sexual content focused on the language is not legion, and you may have some difficulty finding specialized forums grouping content on this subject. There's a lot of this content (which we'll leave you to dig up) that's going to feature and talk mostly about long tongues, and tongue piercings.
For example, imagine someone telling you that they have a blowjob fetish. You probably think it's more normal to like blowjobs than to dislike them.
This is why people who express a real obsession with language are not numerous, because it requires a minimum of introspection.
Why do people have a tongue fetish?
The tongue is truly a pleasure tool in its own right, which has a lot of nerves, which makes it a very sensitive organ. In addition, the language is very often sexually connoted (and this is not for nothing).
It is therefore logical that some people find this organ sexually attractive. We can very well make the association between a sticking out tongue and the potential sexual pleasure behind it.
With the Pavlov reflex or conditioned reflexes, people can experience pleasure directly from visualizing a tongue, because they associate this image with the “positive” result that comes from it.
What is the Pavlov reflex? You give a child a candy if he behaves well, he will behave well because he associates behaving well with the reward of the candy.
Freud, through modern psychoanalysis and psychological theories of development, affirms that language fetishism develops through childhood experience when the child remains stuck or has difficulty getting out of the oral phase. of development.
Now let's talk about some logic. The mouth is a center of pleasure, and many newborns develop this feeling through experiences they have as a child, such as suckling their mother's breast. These sensations may very well remain anchored in us and influence our desires and our impulses as an adult.
This fetish can also come from early sexual experiences that involve the tongue, whether it's a girl who likes to stick her tongue out, or simply an early French kiss that has subconsciously marked you.
Fetishes related to that the tongue
There are still other fetishes that are related to the tongue fetish. For some, piercings are a fetish, so the pierced tongue combines 2 desire catalysts, producing an explosion of desire.
For others, BDSM dynamics involve the tongue, for example, having to lick (or have licked) feet, in a master-slave relationship, which causes the tongue to become eroticized and eroticizing by default.
Finally, some people eroticize and fantasize about the mouth, so the lips, the lipstick are objects of obsession, and the tongue is part of this whole.