Is it worth testing BDSM?
BDSM is often described as an unhealthy practice: it is a bit like the paroxysm of sexuality, even the ultimate sexual taboo. While some sexual games, such as oral foreplay, are considered rather "hardcore", BDSM is very far from it.
Indeed, it is a previously underground practice, which has become more popular recently, as we have already said in a previous article. But it's not all about whether this practice has become more popular or accepted, it's about knowing what the numbers say.
BDSM is practiced by a fairly small percentage of the population, between 1 and 2% only among heterosexuals and homosexuals, although this percentage varies slightly upwards according to the testimony of homosexual people, reaching a maximum of 3% according to the country.
But if BDSM is so well known, and yet so little practiced, it's for a reason, isn't it? So what is it really, is the view we have of BDSM romanticized? Or on the contrary, are we simply afraid of it, and this explains why so few people practice it? This is what we will try to find out in this article.
Is BDSM dangerous?
We'll start by unraveling one of BDSM's biggest mysteries. Admittedly, the fact that BDSM is a practice slightly surrounded by a certain aura of dangerousness is what makes its charm in a way.
But it's not saying that that will lead us to the truth. Bondage and sadomasochism are, as you know, sexual practices oriented towards pleasure relative to pain, and suffering. And the ultimate goal is liberation, or on the contrary oppression which can lead to orgasm.
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But there are still some really dangerous BDSM games out there, including:
- Hypoxiphilia ( suffocation and asphyxiation)
- Branding with a hot iron
- Knife and blade sets
- The flame games
- electric games
And the list does not end there. Spanking and flogging with small whips, while the most popular, are not the only BDSM games. However, it must be said that these potentially dangerous games are often supervised.
Generally, the simple use of the safeword, a word used to defuse the game, because the person no longer feels comfortable, can be enough to avoid dangers such as injuries for example.
Is BDSM like in the movies?
What we have previously described BDSM helps to answer this question a little… Because if 50 shades of gray knew how to animate the flame of BDSM in the hearts of many people, it remains surface practice.
That is to say that the somewhat strong spanking, binding, and gentle flogging are not the only BDSM practices of amateurs in this environment. So no, BDSM is not just a small clean room with leather and satin accessories.
They are also somewhat dangerous games, which can mix the elements (fire, electricity), or use of metal tools such as knives or scissors. And that, you are not about to see in films for all audiences or Netflix series.
Is BDSM a sexual orientation?
So, according to some people, and especially those coming directly from the world of BDSM, it is a sexual orientation in the same way as homosexuality. However, this is not the case in practice.
BDSM is more of a lifestyle, which is therefore flexible, which can change over time, and adapts according to the person you are with, their preferences, etc.
Homosexuality and heterosexuality are fixed practices, which do not change over time. But it's not that simple, because for some people, “conventional” sex, those that don't involve any games related to sadism or masochism, don't satisfy them.
Among these same people, some are no longer able to have normal sexual intercourse once the course of the first BDSM intercourse has passed. But this is only the case for a small minority of people.
If we want to speak concretely, BDSM is the only possible sexual activity for about 10% of practitioners questioned according to certain surveys in several countries. Of course, we can also talk about the popularity argument, because if very few people practice BDSM, then it can't be a practice.
Indeed, BDSM is represented in Western countries and American countries, but it is a fantasy that is not very present in Asia or even in Africa, because of the culture, customs, and sex education. of these countries.
Is BDSM exhilarating?
And yes, to end this article, we are going to talk about BDSM in its very essence, namely its ability to excite people. Although this is very far from being a common practice, it has certainly become a little more democratized.
Thus, more and more followers were able to test erotic games based on small games of domination and submission. Which generally tends… to absolutely please. BDSM is generally very interesting in many ways.
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